How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure

"Women are like golf courses" writes sex educator Lou Paget. "Even though you may have played a course a hundred times, chances are your approach shot rarely lands in the same place on the green". How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure was written for men who want to please women. Much of the book focuses on foreplay (Paget comments that we need to rename it) designed to "excite both her mind and her body". The author offers a variety of strategies for romancing and relaxing a woman and making her feel comfortable. If you don't, she claims, "nothing you can do can rev her engine". Then she describes ways of "kissing her, touching her, and teasing her." Paget includes "a topographical guide" of a woman's body, starting with the sensual areas of the head and face and moving down. She describes ways to massage, caress, lick, kiss, and otherwise excite all these regions. She also discusses lubricants ("slippery, slidy, marvellous stuff"), condoms, manual stimulation, "the art of tongue," sex toys, and a variety of positions (clearly illustrated) for everything you might do. The book is in no way formulaic--in fact, Paget continually stresses that some women love having a particular body part touched in a certain way, while others can't stand it. Whether you're a novice or consider yourself sexually sophisticated, you'll learn plenty from Paget. --Joan Price

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Absolutely one of the best books on the subject. - Rated
I found this to be very informative for a man, or even a couple. A high recommend. I also liked "Sex Machine" for it's content, too and would suggest it as well. (Buy both for loads of good info.)

Great and informative - Rated
The antithesis of the Jay Wiseman books (which are a waste of time). If you read this you'll actually learn something useful. This is a very good instructional book. The only reason I didn't give it 5 stars is because some of the illustrations are not very good.

So far everything tried has been met with universal approval!

Objective feedback from a real couple - Rated
I think that "How to be a great lover" is better because it contains a lot more and detailed techniques. This one also contains such but the approach is a lot more simplistic and sometimes even vague. Is this content really something I would like my husband to know? Yes, there is a broad spectrum of things in it, which is good for him to know. We have been married for 9 years and we have already tried almost everything. However, there are still several things in her book which we found new and interesting to know.

I read a few recommendations for "Scientifcally guaranteed male multiple orgasms and ultimate sex". Well, that was 100% new and really advanced. My husband learnt how to increase his endurance 3 times and now the more sex we have, the more multi-orgasms he enjoys. He has achieved for the last 3 weeks up to 15 per love making. Now he doesn't want to stop while before it was 10-15 minutes and "enough". This change increased several times my pleasure and now I also enjoy orgasms every time. That's why we recommend both books.

One of the best books I've read - Rated
This book has kept me interested throughout and has opened my eyes to what I have neglected. I couldn't beleive what the word negligee actualy means. Can't wait to get home and act upon the book and expand it with my partner.

Thank you Lou

IF you want to make a lady happy ( all day ) ,read this !! - Rated
Perhaps lets itself down by too many details about things that are peripheral to actual sex between a man and woman.e.g setting the right mood etc . Let's face it, if you buy the book you already should know all this .
Could have been a little more specific in other areas.

However it was a good sensible and practical guide for those serious about making themselves better and more considerate lovers.

Nice one Lou!